Sunday, May 24, 2009

One Year Today


Today marks one year that I have not seen my grandchildren. I was able to talk to them up until late June. Many of you have asked me if I've had any contact with them and the answer is no. A price has been put on their beautiful little heads. Pay the money or you can no longer see your grandchildren. If you pay it all will be forgiven. What type of parent puts a price on their children. Jim's son Bob told me that if I wrote a check for our entire IRA then I could see our grandchildren. He did not want out home or our car, he said I could keep these two things. But the IRA was to be given to him. I could not give away all of the money that Jim and I worked for and that he wanted me to have. He was very specific about this and had taken care of it legally.
I miss these three little boys so much. Jack, Josh and Lucas I love you and no matter what your parents tell you I love you and want to see you so badly. Someday when you are old enough to find this blog on the Internet you will know that I love you and did not abandon you. You can always call me and I will be there for you. I have sent you cards and letters but in the beginning they were sent back to me so I have saved them for you. I have no idea about the others.
I have put away many of your grandfathers things and someday I'll give them to you. Just know you are always in my thoughts. The last time I talked to you Jack you were crying your eyes out because I could not come see you. This broke my heart and I wanted to hug you so badly. Then the phone was taken from you. I know you hurt to and someday we will be together and I can give you that hug.

3 comments:

Naomi Chokr said...

Hi Patty! I know you said that you would be an honorary grand mother to my future children. know that you will be and would you be mine? Reading your blog put me to tears. I haven't seen my grandma since 2004. I went to the Philippines to be with her when my grandfather died and all she wanted was for me and my cousin to stay with her at her house. We flew to the Philippines and we never got to see her. My aunt took her away and till this day no one has seen her. She wants my dad to surrender the titles to some real estate property and for my other aunt to give her, her inheritance. I didn't realize we were in the same boat. I dont know if she even knew that we flew there to see her. But my aunt made sure that we wouldnt be able to spend time with her. I miss her and think about her all the time and wonder if she is ok. Im sure she is but I miss the grandma that took care of me when my family couldn't. Know that I'm here. Call anytime. Love you!

Naomi Chokr said...

Hi Patty! I know you said that you would be an honorary grand mother to my future children. know that you will be and would you be mine? Reading your blog put me to tears. I haven't seen my grandma since 2004. I went to the Philippines to be with her when my grandfather died and all she wanted was for me and my cousin to stay with her at her house. We flew to the Philippines and we never got to see her. My aunt took her away and till this day no one has seen her. She wants my dad to surrender the titles to some real estate property and for my other aunt to give her, her inheritance. I didn't realize we were in the same boat. I dont know if she even knew that we flew there to see her. But my aunt made sure that we wouldnt be able to spend time with her. I miss her and think about her all the time and wonder if she is ok. Im sure she is but I miss the grandma that took care of me when my family couldn't. Know that I'm here. Call anytime. Love you!

Patricia8 said...

I hope these lovely children get to read your heartfelt words one day ... I think they will.